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How to Balance Work and Life for Women? (Part I)




Are you feeling exhausted? Does your list of things to do keep getting longer? In our fast-paced world, it's easy to feel stretched thin and pulled in a million different ways, especially for professional women. Setting limits and making good use of your time are the keys to getting back in control and reaching your goals professionally, emotionally, and personally.


Business and professional women must live a healthy and balanced life. Constant demands from family and work without having clear limits caused stress and burnout.  Women should focus on what matters by limiting time and energy to maintain a good family relationship and manage career tasks efficiently. Family members and business associates will respect your time and need if they know the limits. You can be more productive by turning down tasks that aren't urgent or necessary. This gives you more time and energy to focus on your priorities and goals. Setting limits shows that you value yourself and gives you the power to manage your time and life.


A big part of having limits is being able to say "no." At first, though, it might feel weird.  Make it clear why you can't accept a request. An easy "I'm not available" or "This doesn't fit my priorities right now" will do. This shows you're ready to help, but only if it fits your needs, capabilities, and time. It's okay to say no to a request without saying sorry. You don't have to tell anyone why you set limits. Being able to say "no" gets easier with practice.  Begin with small asks and get better at setting limits over time.


Once you set limits, you can focus on making good choices about which jobs to do first.   What are you trying to achieve?  When you have clear goals, you can determine which jobs will help you reach those goals the most. Write down all of your employment, but mark the important ones as such.  Do the most important things first, even if they're not pressing. Tasks are grouped based on how important and quickly they must be done.  Do the most important and urgent tasks first, then plan the important but not urgent ones. Give up or eliminate the less important tasks, and avoid the urgent but not important ones.  Set aside specific chunks of time in your plan to do certain things.  This makes sure that you give each goal your full attention. How to delegate and outsource tasks by trusting your team or associates or outsourcing to their parties to make time for the most critical tasks. After all, you don't have to do everything yourself. 


Making a plan that works for you is as important as putting things in order of importance.   Take breaks daily to keep your mind clear and avoid getting tired. Don't take on too much to burn yourself.  Set reasonable due dates for your tasks to avoid feeling too tired. Leave some time in your plan for tasks or appointments coming out of the blue or emergencies. Check out how your time is spent and make adjustments accordingly.  You can use time-tracking apps or write things down for a few days to find places where you can improve. Multitasking usually makes you less productive.  For best results, focus on finishing one thing at a time.


Our society often praises being busy.  But being busy all the time doesn't mean you're successful or productive.  Put jobs that will help you reach your goals at the top of your list.  Plan complex tasks when you have a lot of energy, and save more manageable tasks when you're tired. Limit your time spent on social media, online entertainment, and disinformation.  Stop getting alerts and set times to check your emails and social media. Plan time to do things that make you happy and help you recharge.  This could mean resting, spending time with family and friends, or doing something you enjoy. Do not let your desire for perfection hold you back. Please pay attention to taking steps toward your goals, no matter how small they are.


To Be Continued.

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